By Nancy Jorgensen
Two-year-old George zooms his handheld toy bicycle up a ramp, through the air, and down another ramp. “Grandma, can you do that?” George wears only his Monster Jam underwear because who has time for clothes when serious biking awaits?
“I’m lucky to ride a bike at all,” I say, remembering how my knee groans when it swings over the saddle.
George balances the toy on its back tire for a wheelie. “Zhooom-zhoom.” He tilts his head, blond hair like the down on a baby chick, toward me. “Grandma, can you do that?”
“There are lots of things I can’t do,” I say. Build muscle, memorize a piano piece, master sourdough.
George launches the toy bike off the couch, returns for a rail grind, and sets it beside me. “Grandma, can you do that?” His warm little leg rests against mine.
“No, I can’t.” Or paint a picture, run a 5K, think before I speak.
“What about you?” I say. “Can you do that?”
George shakes his head. It seems an honest assessment, without judgment or regret.
“When will you be able to?” I ask.
As though he’s thought about this, George holds up five fingers, confident in his growth over the next three years.
While I tally my shortcomings, he accepts his limits and still imagines success.
Nancy Jorgensen is a Wisconsin writer, educator, and musician. Her essays appear in HuffPost, Next Avenue, The Offing, Wisconsin Public Radio, and elsewhere. Her most recent book is a middle-grade sports biography, Gwen Jorgensen: USA’s First Olympic Gold Medal Triathlete (Meyer & Meyer). Find out more at NancyJorgensen.weebly.com
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A warm, engaging morning read for my Coffee Ceremony. I especially appreciate the list of things Grandma can’t do. Most are familiar to me. And the calm studious way that George considers questions. Thanks from another Wisconsinite.
I love this essay–and the unbridled enthusiasm and confidence of two-year-old George, contrasted with the self-doubting grandma!
Such a sweet story. I relate to it fully as a grandmother with young grandsons. Thanks for sharing this.
Lovely piece!