By Andreea Boboc
My father’s face, covered in foam, grimaces with concentration. The eight-year-old me prattles on while he removes his beard with surgical precision.
The razor whispers against his smooth skin. His Achilles’ heel is under his nose, where an insolent mole lurks. It bleeds no matter how carefully he shaves around it. Oh, how I hate it! It is a boundary stone that separates me from my dad. When he reaches it, he looks first at me, then at the door—a sign that I need to give him privacy as he tries not to nick himself yet again.
Forty-seven years on, some things have changed. My father’s beard has grown so coarse and unruly that he uses a hair clipper, his face too uneven for a razor. The hair clipper whines and stutters against his skin, catching on every bump. He lives with me because he can no longer live alone, yet he insists on his independence—a good thing, since with Parkinson’s he needs to keep moving for as long as possible.
So I let him clip his beard with tremulous hands, and then I do some touching up, trimming the tufts he’s missed along his face and neck. The mole is still there, still defiant. But it no longer draws blood, no longer sends me away. As we talk and clip hair, it is just a skin bump with hair growing over it—like grass over a forgotten boundary stone.
Andreea Boboc is a writer and professor of medieval literature in Northern California. Born in Romania behind the Iron Curtain, she has published work in Raleigh Review, La Piccioletta Barca, and other venues. She is currently at work on her first novel.
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I used to watch my father shave too. Such a lovely story about our changing roles in life. Thank you!
Beautiful! I love the aging and softening that happens on so many levels in this piece.
So nicely done. I enjoy the notion of the mole as part of a boundary rock–nolonger serving that purpose by the end.
A beautiful way to show the passage of time and your relationship with your father.
Andreea, you have such a good portrayal of your relationship with your father. It is such a soft way of looking at age.
A touching story, beautifully written.