By Jennifer Gallo Gaites
Searching for a recipe—old school, pulling cookbooks from the shelf and scanning glossy photographs—a yellowed advice column slips to the floor. “Hints from Heloise.” I bend down, and carefully slide my nails beneath the stiff newsprint. “A Seasoned Skillet.”
My grandmother had a habit of clipping articles. Wherever I was–at college, a new city, my first home–I’d get an envelope in the mail, addressed in her neat cursive. Tucked inside, a small stack of newsprint: how to care for a cast iron skillet, tips for de-icing a windshield, museum exhibits, book reviews.
As a mother of young adults, I understand this urge now. A rolodex of advice pinwheels in my head: Did I tell you about…? Do you know how to….? Their phones buzz at odd hours, texts from me: a link to time management strategies, a video of Olivia Rodrigo, boots that are warm but not stylish.
A well-seasoned skillet is a family treasure, Heloise says. It releases its food easily, subtly seasoned with the flavors of generations before.
The newspaper clipping is twenty-two years old. My pan is now well-loved and the advice, if needed, is easily retrieved from the internet. But I press the small paper, once again, between the pages of a recipe book. I want to hold onto the surprise of happening upon it. To see words on a page that hint at something deeper. Something that says: Here’s how we stay connected. Here’s what I’m giving you to live in this world.
Jennifer Gallo Gaites is a writer from Fair Haven, NJ. Her work has been published in WOW! Women on Writing, Hippocampus, and Literary Mama. She is a writing instructor at Project Write Now.
Image by James Lee courtesy of Unsplash
I love the lyrical prose of Jennifer Gallo Gaites. One of my fav flash writers!